Friday, March 6, 2015

Be Deliberate, but Be Fluid


To Act, and Not be Acted Upon~

There is a concept I love within my own religious beliefs, and it is that we were created as human beings to "Act," and not be "Acted Upon." We have the choice each day to let things just happen to us, or approach the day with intention. Why? Because we have freedom to choose in the first place. We have the gift of agency in this life, and we will either live deliberately, or not.
Could you ever climb a mountain if you did not choose to put one foot forward after the other step after step until you reached the top? You could just as easily choose to sit at the bottom and wait for someone to carry you. 
So when I get up in the morning and just allow things to come at me as if I were some kind of goalie waiting for the next ball to hit--after awhile I start to see that I'm just standing there in the same place I started, and never made any steps across the field that day. I'm speaking very figuratively, but in a more literal sense, if I allow the demands of people in my life, even the people I love to be what I am constantly setting aside my own needs for, it gets exhausting! Any mother knows that feeling well when you're showering at 4:00 in the afternoon because you've been running around for everyone else all day in your PJs...we all do this. Right?  
So--being deliberate and intentional about making plans, meeting your own needs, and accomplishing something because you purely wanted to--not because you were told to, is where I feel most free. It's something I need to do to feel sane really. 

Coming Back to Balance~
If I lived the way I am describing all the time, I'd be pretty selfish. In fact, there are times when if I "go with the flow" and stop battling against the current I'm so much happier, because I'm thinking of others, and THEIR needs.  Let's say my boy asks me to play a game, but I've planned to make lasagne--so I say "maybe later..."
Or maybe he says "Mom, we can we go to the dollar store?" I say "Yes." Then I go, and realized he just saved me time because I needed to run that errand right away and didn't even know it yet. 
When I had a clock in/clock out kind of employment I remember times I'd get my schedule that was posted for the month and be surprised that my hours changed. I didn't usually fight it. Almost always it ended up working out to my own benefit for a reason I couldn't foresee.  For these reasons given by example, we can see that being fluid is just as important as being intentional. 
So next time you place your feet down on the yoga mat--place them deliberately but also remember the fluidity of the practice. 


Saturday, January 10, 2015

Vision and Passion


Vision and Passion~
I've been thinking a lot about where life is going. The uncertainty of each step towards the unknown is difficult at times. This past year I put a lot of the things I was passionate about on hold. I had our third baby boy and shortly afterward joined Doterra as a business from home.  I suffered the worst postpartum depression I've had, and thanks to prayer, blessings, natural remedies, dear friends, and especially my most supportive and amazing husband, I made it through a tough year.  Blogging became less frequent, playing my guitar, singing, performing, volunteering in the community, cooking up new recipes, attending yoga classes, and even time with my children seemed to gradually dissipate as I just tried to keep up with daily tasks.  Life became imbalanced once again--but this blog is to show my efforts to always come back and regain that balance I desire.  In a previous post, I wrote about how if we have a specific goal, we may need to put other things on hold for awhile in order to attain the focus we need in one direction.  It's sometimes what has to happen in order to see progression. 
Well, now I have less passion, but more vision. There's a balance between the two.  As I look optimistically into the future now, it's a wide expanse of unknown landscape glossed over by a settling mist. We have many passions that drive us. They keep us focused and motivated in a pin point direction, but a vision is like a calm ocean spread out serenely calling us to move forward with grace and good intent.  Passion tends to feel self-oriented.  When we say we are passionate about something, it's almost like we are saying we do it more or better than anyone else does.  Vision on the other hand, is like an invitation for others to join you in what you love.  I'm beginning to see how we are indeed all connected. 
I've been teaching Yoga Workshops this past year using the essential oils.  Each month has a theme, and I was most pleased when I opened the manual recently to see that this month's theme is "Vision."  Oh how appropriate 

Thursday, October 9, 2014

Peach-Glazed Chicken with Beets, Parsnips, & Carrots



Peach-Glazed Chicken with Beets, Parsnips, & Carrots 

1Tbs Olive Oil
1 Medium Onion, Sliced & Quartered
3 Small Beets, Peeled & Cubed
1 Large Parsnip, Peeled & Cubed
2-3 Large Carrots, Peeled & Cubed
1/3 Cup Peach Jam
2Tbs Dijon Mustard
Salt & Pepper to Taste 
1 1/2 Lb. Organic Chicken Legs
1/2 Cup Dried Figs
1/4 Cup Water
1Tbs Apple Cider Vinegar

Using a Large Cast Iron Skillet, warm olive oil over medium-high heat and add the onions.  Saute for 2 minutes until softened. Add beets, parsnips, & carrots.  Stir for about 7 more minutes.  In a bowl, mix together jam, mustard, water, vinegar, and a little salt & pepper.  Place chicken legs into the pan so the meat touches the bottom, nestled into the vegetables.  Scatter the figs over the top.  Pour the prepared peach glaze over the entire dish, cover, and cook for 3-5 minutes.  Mix the sauce in a bit if needed, and then remove the cover to roast in the oven for 20 minutes at 450 F.  Serve over a bed of well cooked moist brown rice. 

Monday, September 29, 2014

Grounded



What does it mean to be grounded?

To me it means returning to what you know is home. It is knowing who you are, & staying true to yourself.  It's allowing yourself to breathe at your own pace. It means to have roots firmly growing deep, so that we can reach higher heights over time. It's reminding ourselves of the power inside all of us and respecting each others' differences. 
When I feel grounded I seem to feel  more accepting of current circumstances, more hopeful for the future, and more willing to remove ambition from my life. I am more patient and more realistic, yet full of optimism. My mantra becomes "I am enough."  
I feel that way today.  It's a very real and lasting kind if happiness.  Self love turns into love that extends beyond ourselves and has limitless bounds. This is when we can truly say that what we feel inside will indeed impact our world.  

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Red, White, and Blueberries


Blueberry’s Best Muffins  These muffins speak for themselves.  I catch myself saying they are yet another favorite!  Celebrate your freedom and independence this year with family gathered to give thanks to those who serve our country, and to one nation, under God.  Cheers to the true colors of red, white, and blue.

3 Ripe Smashed Bananas
2 Eggs
½ Cup Sucanat
½ Cup Soft Butter
1 tsp Vanilla Extract
1 ¼ Cups Whole White Wheat Pastry Flour
1 tsp Baking Powder
½ tsp Real Salt
1 tsp Ground Cinnamon (or 7 drops DoTerra Cinnamon Essential Oil)
1 Cup Rolled Oats
½ Cup Finely Chopped Walnuts
2 Cups Frozen Blueberries

In a large mixing bowl, smash the bananas using a potato masher. Using an electric mixer, add the eggs, sucanat, butter, and vanilla.  In a separate bowl, combine the flour, baking powder, salt, and cinnamon.  Combine both mixtures into one bowl.  Fold in the oats, nuts, and blueberries.  Batter will be tough because of the cold berries, but the fact that they are frozen insures the berries remain more intact during the baking process.  Using paper liners in muffin tins, spoon batter into each liner ¾ of the way full.  Bake at 350F for 25-30 minutes.  Makes approx. 18 full size muffins.  Can bake in mini muffin tins as well.  I usually do one pan of regular sized, and two of the minis.

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Gut Feelings


Shrimp Sauce Pasta 
This is a family favorite.  A great alternative to Alfredo--creamy, flavorful, and fresh.  This is a dairy-free meal if you omit the Parmesan cheese, and for a gluten free dish, simply substitute brown rice pasta.

4 Tbs Olive Oil, Divided
3 Cloves Garlic
1/2 Large Onion, Sliced Thin, and Quartered
1 tsp Dried Basil
1 tsp Dried Oregano
1 Can Coconut Milk (I Use Thai Brand)
1/2 Cup Almond Milk
1/2 tsp Arrowroot Powder dissolved in 1tsp Water
Juice of 1/2 a Fresh Lemon
1/4 Cup Sherry Cooking Wine or Vinegar
1/2 tsp Paprika
12 oz Package Whole Grain Linguine

Medium Raw Shrimp, Shelled, with Tails Removed
4 Fresh Roma Tomatoes Sliced and Quartered
Serve with Salt, Pepper, Fresh Parsley, and Grated Parmesan Cheese

Saute the garlic and onion in 2Tbs olive oil until translucent.  Stir in the basil and oregano.  Remove this mixture into a saucepan, and reserve the skillet for later use.  In the saucepan, add the coconut milk, almond milk, arrowroot, lemon juice, sherry, paprika, and a little salt and pepper to taste.  Let this mixture simmer and thicken over low heat while preparing the linguine according to package directions.  Make sure the shrimp are well washed and drained to avoid any fishy taste in the sauce.  Place the shrimp in the reserved skillet with the remaining 2 Tbs. Olive Oil. Saute the shrimp just until they turn pink, stirring to coat.  In a large pot, pour the sauce over the pasta, adding in the cooked shrimp, and Roma tomatoes.  Serve while hot, garnishing with fresh chopped parsley, grated Parmesan, and salt and pepper. 


Gut Feelings~
I've brought this topic up on several posts, but mostly talked around it because it is such a sensitive one for most people.  With that being said, I feel that I have a strong opinion about food allergies and intolerance, which goes against the grain of what you'll hear frequently on the subject.  Most of my opinion was formed simply by my personal experiences, research, and frankly what I feel deep down in my gut.  So here are some things I've noticed over the last six years or so:

~Increase of gluten intolerance diagnosis
~Increase of gluten free products on the market
~People going gluten free because they have digestive, immune system, or skin problems
~People who are vegetarian going vegan, then maybe progressing to a raw food diet, eventually develop an intolerance to foods they have been avoiding, including gluten
~People who cannot tolerate gluten, for some reason can tolerate it if it's made with a sourdough starter
~Restaraunts now offering more gluten free menu items
~The Hollywood gluten free craze looks a lot like the low carb "Atkins Diet" that failed so miserably
~ My own family uses probiotics, enzymes, and anti-inflammatory foods, along with a variety of grains, and we've overcome some intolerance and allergies.
So are we to become a gluten free nation?  I hope not.  What about the phrase, "wheat is for man" found in scripture?  Wheat is the staff of life--it has been said.

Eighty percent of our body's immune system is located in the digestive tract, which greatly depends on the balance of intestinal flora in the gut.  We live in a nation so greatly dependent on antibiotic treatment,that we've wiped out much of our digestive and immune function before elementary school.  Tack onto that steroid and antihistamine use which suppresses immune response, and the increase of sugar consumption--(sugar also suppresses immunity by blocking receptor cites for Vit C, an feeds bad bacteria, just to name a couple of problems,) and you've got a recipe for digestive, autoimmune, and inflammation problems.  If you happen to have a stronger system to begin with, or you compensate by using anti-inflammatory foods or medications, you'll probably be alright.  Many of us have chronic stress in our lives as well, so our stomach acid lowers again, and again, to create yet another slue of problems I may later discuss.  Even mental health decline is now being linked to our gut health.  

My point is, are we avoiding wheat because there is something wrong with the wheat? Or is it something wrong with us?  Some say that our wheat is mass produced, genetically modified, and therefore it's the wheat industry's fault. Honestly, any time I see something go haywire on the market, I have to wonder how much of this is really just about who's making the most money from our illness as a nation.  Right now, it seems like all I see are gluten free products.  Hmmmm...
   
I'm not denying that the intolerance is real.  I've experienced such symptoms myself.  I went through a time when I reacted to everything I ate.  Mostly with skin inflammations like dermatitis, but also I've struggled with impaired immunity, sugar sensitivity, chronic nausea, hormone and endocrine system imbalances.  I believe if it gets that bad, then yes, you must avoid the things that are making you sick, but also, look forward to a time when you won't be sick anymore.  It's not a permanent diagnosis.  You can do things to change your gut health, so that you may become tolerant to foods again. 

This all comes Back to Balance~

There are some food allergies that are fatal.  If you are carrying around a epee-pen because of an allergy to peanuts, than you're probably rolling your eyes at all of this.  I understand there are some things we just have to accept and live with.  It just seems like acceptance of diagnosis happens all too often.  Our bodies are made to heal if given the right tools.

During times of economical decline, emergency, or survival situations—we need to be able to eat mac n cheese, and canned chili if it’s all that is available to us without getting sick.   Much like the child who plays in the dirt improves his immune system by exposure, we improve our ability to thrive by exposure to imperfect foods.   My personal feeling about overly strict diets of any kind, is that we are setting ourselves up for sensitivity.  The more we avoid something, the more our body will recognize it as a foreign substance.  On the other hand, we have to balance that with knowing our limits.  We each have a unique body chemistry to work with, and you know best when to back off from something that causes you illness. 

Variety is so important.  When I went off of wheat, dairy, sugar, and all processed foods to improve my own health, my horizons opened up to a whole world of variety.  I suddenly ate things like amaranth, quinoa, brown rice, buckwheat, spelt, kamut, oats, corn, and so forth.  When I finally did reintroduce wheat back into my diet, it was with maybe one little cracker.  So now, I do eat things I used to avoid, but it's more in balance.  I'm not just having wheat toast, crackers, and cereal all the time. We focus on a variety of fruits, vegetables, cultured dairy products, different types of whole grains and starchy vegetables, and yes we eat meat, but mostly fish, and eggs.  Also, we eat things like cookies. and ice cream. and canned chili--thanks to my husband, we are balanced.  I kind of look at it like a bank account.  We know intuitively what foods are a deficit, and must be replenished by some income.  We all want more income than expenditures, right?  So that's how things stay in check. 

So how do you improve your gut health?  Probiotic and enzyme supplements are great.  We use these almost daily at our house, and my once wheat and dairy-intolerant little Liam has improved immensely.  It's even better if you can find naturally occurring probiotics and enzymes in foods.  That's why cultured foods, such as the sourdough starter are better tolerated for people with gluten sensitivity.  The same it was for Liam.  He could never drink milk, but he could eat tons of yogurt, or kefir.  Also, foods that have a mucilaginous consistency to them are very healing to the intestinal lining.  Things like Aloe Vera, Marshmallow Root, and Slippery Elm, or Licorice Root are wonderful examples.  These are a little harder to get into your regular diet--but I can give you some great ways to do so.  One example is from a blog post I made from 1/25/13 called "Prioritize Your Health."
http://balanceonandoffthemat.blogspot.com/2013/01/prioritize-your-health.html
Here you can find a recipe for Homemade Slippery elm lozenges.  The amino acid L-Glutamine has also proved to be effective in healing the stomach and intestinal wall.  DoTerra also has a wonderful supplement line, including PB Assist, Terrazyme, and the Lifelong Vitality Pack.  The vitality pack has an incredible blend of anti-inflamatory omega fatty acids, and antioxidants, as well as a little mild daily detoxification. 




Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Cooking With Essential Oils

So I said I'd be experimenting, and this is what happened this last week...YUM.  Unlike some essential oil brands, most of doTerra Essential Oils are safe for consumption.  Food and medicine are one and the same to me, and it's even more so true now.  Enjoy!

Golden Rice Pudding

Golden Rice Pudding  This whole grain, dairy free, sugar free version of an old favorite just got better.  I've been making this for quite awhile to satisfy my sweet-tooth, but adding the golden raisins and using cinnamon essential oil in the place of my regular ground cinnamon was amazing.  Just the smell wafting up from the pot on the warm stove was therapeutic.  It's great served warm, or cold, for breakfast, or dessert. Make sure the brown rice you are using is well cooked and soft--it's a fantastic way to use leftover rice.

1 1/2 Cans Pure Coconut Milk (Use the cream that separates to the top for the second half)
10-15 Drops Pure Stevia Extract
7 Drops doTerra Cinnamon Essential Oil
1/2 tsp Ground Nutmeg
1/2 tsp Redmond Real Salt
1 1/2 tsp Vanilla Extract
4 Cups Fully Cooked Brown Rice
1/2 Cup Golden Raisins

Warm the coconut milk over medium heat, adding extracts and seasonings until integrated.  Add the rice to the warm milk mixture, stirring constantly and heating through.  Fold in the golden raisins, and remove from the heat to thicken and cool.  Allow the flavors to blend, then serve warm or cooled.  Keep leftovers in the fridge right in the pot so it can be easily warmed again over the stove.


Lemon Raspberry Yogurt Parfait

Lemon Raspberry Yogurt Parfaits Alright, I was skeptical this recipe from my 6/21/13 blog post last year would have any improvement using essential oils, but I simply love using the lemon oil in place of the lemon juice.  It's really good either way, but the lemon essential oil tastes less tart.  Also, you get the concentrated detoxifying benefit of several pounds of lemons using the essential oil!  I doubled this recipe for my last doTerra essential oils class.

32 oz. Plain Organic Yogurt
4 Packets of Sweet Leaf Stevia Powder
15-20 Drops doTerra Lemon Essential Oil
1 lb. Fresh Washed Raspberries
9 Sheets Organic Whole Wheat Graham Cracker (or Granola)
Homemade Organic Whipped Cream (optional)

Crush the Graham Crackers in a large plastic zip bag, using a rolling pin--(my kids do this part for me.)  Combine the first 3 ingredients to make the lemon yogurt.  Mix till smooth and creamy. Layer in a small glass the graham cracker crumbs, then the lemon yogurt, then the raspberries. Do this twice.  Top with some homemade whipped cream.